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Recovery
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Dates Twelfth
Step Within
Our personal recovery
stories remind us that we are not alone. Through another's
experience, strength and hope, we can know recovery for ourselves.
Ask-It
Basket is a place to ask your questions about recovery,
service and OA operations.
Important
Dates provide information about opportunities to share
recovery and Fellowship with others.
Twelfth
Step Within offers hope to still-suffering compulsive overeaters
within the Fellowship and provides information for Twelfth-Step-Within
committees.
Keep reading for more inspiration and support
to help you in your recovery:
Serenity prayer
God, grant me the serenity to accept
the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference.
The OA Promise
I put my hand in yours, and together
we can do what we could never do alone. No longer is there a
sense of hopelessness, no longer must we each depend upon our
own unsteady willpower. We are all together now, reaching out
our hands for power and strength greater than ours, and as we
join hands, we find love and understanding beyond our wildest
dreams.
The Third-Step Prayer
God, I offer myself to theeto build
with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage
of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties,
that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help
of Thy power, Thy love, and Thy way of life. May I do Thy will
always! (Alcoholics
Anonymous, p. 63)
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The Seventh-Step Prayer
My creator, I am now willing that you
should have all of me, good and bad. I pray that you now remove
from me every single defect of character which stands in the
way of my usefulness to you and my fellows. Grant me strength,
as I go out from here, to do your bidding. Amen. (Alcoholics
Anonymous, p. 76)
We who began working the Steps in order
to recover from compulsive eating now find that through them
we have embarked on a lifelong journey of spiritual growth. From
the isolation of food obsession we have emerged into a new world.
Walking hand in hand with our friends and our Higher Power, we
are now exploring this world, using the great spiritual principles
embodied in the Twelve Steps as the map to guide our way. We
gratefully follow in the footsteps of many others who have walked
this way before us, and we're gratified to be making footprints
of our own for others to follow.
Those of us who live this program don't
simply carry the message; we are the message. Each day that we
live well, we are well, and we embody the joy of recovery which
attracts others who want what we've found in OA. We're always
happy to share our secret: the Twelve Steps of Overeaters Anonymous,
which empower each of us to live well and be well, one day at
a time. (The
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous,
p. 106)
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Been Slippin’ and
Slidin’?
A Reading and Writing Tool
For members who want to stop slipping and sliding, download "Been
Slippin' and Slidin'?*, which contains 30 questions for use in daily writing
and/or discussion with a sponsor. The questions are also recommended for those
in relapse who want to recommit to their OA program.
Recovery Insurance
Policy
Together we can do what we could never do alone . . . This Recovery
Insurance Policy* is a pledge between two OA members to support and to
be accountable to one another. No member is immune to relapse or to quitting
OA. This agreement is an insurance policy against both possibilities.
If you think this agreement could be helpful for you, fill out your name and
other information as the I on one side of the form and have another
OA member complete the other half. Cut the forms apart and exchange sides.
Place the agreement in a prominent spot to remind you of your commitment to
recovery and to service. This Recovery Insurance Policy is no guarantee of
recovery, but it may keep you from leaving OA before the miracle happens. And
remember to KEEP COMING BACK NO MATTER WHAT!
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The Gratitude Path
It seems to me that the antidote to negative
thinking is gratitude. I tend toward negativity, especially when
I am confused or stressed.
I find that if I substitute thoughts of gratitude, my thinking
goes from being fear-based to being God-based. By thinking
myself into a state of gratitude, I am freed of my negativity.
It doesn't matter how childish or mundane my
thanks are. I can begin with thoughts such as these: Thank you
for the chair.
Thank
you for the stars. Thank you for my shoes. Thank you for the
opportunity to serve. Thank you for new challenges. Thank
you for guidance.
These thoughts help me to get out of my negative feelings and
to concentrate on that for which I am grateful. Then I end
up in a
spiritually high place, where I am in a state of gratitude.
Rather than taking all of my blessings for granted, I feel the
presence
of a power greater than myself. I don't feel alone, vulnerable,
insignificant or negative. Instead, I feel full of faith, safe
and confident that I am on the right path.
— C.L., Baton Rouge, Louisiana USA
Laughing
at Myself
When I have the ability to laugh at myself, it’s a good
indication that my humility is where it should be. When I take
myself, and everyone and everything around me, too seriously,
I fall flat into a big lack of humility. There have been days
when I’m so busy controlling and manipulating and people-pleasing
and lying that I couldn’t possibly laugh. But when I’m
abstinent, I’m more than halfway there, and when I pray
and ask my Higher Power to remove my defects, I’m already
on my way to being able to laugh at myself. And it’s important
to note that it’s not self-deprecating laughter, but rather
a clear view of a less-than-perfect me. I’m human and fallible
and full of faults—and full of love for myself.
— Reprinted from Lifeline, January 1998
More Inspiring Stories
Previously on this page, the following stories
are now available as PDF* files:
They Were Praying
The Mask
*These PDF files require Acrobat Reader. If you don't have it installed on
your computer, go to the Help page
for instructions on how to download this free tool.
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